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1.Must-Have
2.Should Have
3.Could Have
4.Wonโt Have
Thanks Patrick Bet-David helping me
Ambitious people really only have two options: a supportive partner or no part at all.
There is no doubt that the right life partner will help you to face every difficult situation in life.
We know the Ideal Customer avatar is a very important aspect of every business.
But have you thought about your Ideal Wife/ Husband Avatar?
What qualities are you looking for in your ideal spouse?
Let’s deep dive into my Ideal Wife Avatar.
This is not some theory that I have written. I have made the avatar-based upon what I want in my life. Most people are afraid to express what they want but I am bold enough to put it over here.
I have made my Ideal Wife Avatar into 4 different criteria.
First one, Must Have
๐I want to marry a girl who has mentors in life.
I love mentors and I love the people who have mentors. I have spoken numerous times about the importance of having mentors. And I believe if she has amazing mentors, there is not much heavy lifting needed from my side.
She must have business mentors as well as spiritual mentors. The roots have to be a spiritually awakened soul.
๐She must have hunger and a burning desire to be the best in whatever she is doing. She does work in becoming top #1 in all aspects of life.
๐It is mandatory for her to be a vegetarian because I believe that a vegetarian’s brain will be much smarter and will stay healthy.
๐Patience and intellectual curiosity should be top-notch as I am waiting for a girl who will be always talking about ideas.
If that person does not have patience, she will say, โWho the hell are you man?!โ And itโs going to be extremely difficult for me to stay with that person.
She must have good leadership and full-stack knowledge.
๐She must have no fear of making videos and speaking in front of thousands of people because when I have to go to events and business trips, I can have company with me.
๐She must love consulting, teaching people online, and making our world a better place to live so that we can brainstorm ideas and work together because when two people work together we can get things done fast.
๐She has to be an Integrator, connecting the dots because I start things, I am visionary but I donโt end things. So, she would be complementary to me.
๐She must have a good command of English communication skills, smarter than me so she would help me to be a better version of myself.
๐She must respect my parents and friends the same way I do.
Her religion or caste does not matter to me. I only believe you have to have good principles over anything.
๐She must always speak the truth.
She must be a believer in simple living, high thinking.
๐She must be able to understand me better than anyone in the world. We should know each other for at least for 2 years.
Having good relationships, compassion, and peace of mind is much more important than achievements, awards, degrees, or money for me.
๐Let me have space for my own pursuit of passion. I donโt control her, similarly, she mustnโt control me.
Let me come to the second criteria – Should Have.
๐She should read at least a book a week and should do yoga, exercises 30 minutes a day.
๐She should do meditation, have a bigger purpose, and have an obsession in life to help others. She ought to have charities and help needy people.
๐She should cook great food and different recipes, and drive cars.
๐She should follow a daily routine like waking up and sleeping at the same time every day.
Now comes to the Could Have.
๐It will be great if she knows how to play musical instruments, dance, play badminton, and swim.
๐We could have at least 10 mutual friends.
These are not compulsory in the Wife Avatar but a plus point.
Now let me tell you some qualities I Wonโt Have in my Ideal Wife Avatar.
Things I consider as a red flag in my ideal spouse.
๐She should not be inclined into political talks.
๐She must stay away from intoxicants like consuming alcohol or smoking.
๐I don’t want any dictatorship, I want my life partner to be a down-to-earth person.
๐She should not spend her precious time watching non-productive shows or reading newspapers.
๐She must not indulge in gambling.
๐A forgetful, lazy, characterless person is a big no for me.
This is the Ideal Customer Avatar for Akshay Rajsheakaran.
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