Basic Rules for Being a Good Listener [Video]

In this video, Orly shares valuable tips on how to be a good listener with Chris Do. He emphasizes the importance of creating a safe space for others to express themselves without judgment or unsolicited advice. Reflective listening, intentional silence, and focusing on the speaker are key techniques to enhance your listening skills. Orly reminds us that these guidelines are flexible and breaking them intentionally is acceptable as long as it serves a purpose. Watch the video to learn how to become a great listener and improve your relationships through effective communication.

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Host: Chris Do
Producer: Mark Contreras
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Timestamps:
00:00 – The Symbolism of the Listening Table
00:33 – Basic Rules for Being a Good Listener
01:02 – No Judgment, No Unsolicited Advice
01:28 – Focusing on the Speaker: Their Story Matters
02:00 – Reflective Listening: Validating Emotions
02:27 – The Flexibility of Listening Guidelines
02:59 – Showcasing Understanding through Reflective Responses
03:29 – Breaking the Rules with Intentionality
03:57 – Low Stakes Conversations: Learning from Mistakes